Me (19M) met my girlfriend (22F) in February 2022 (I dropped out from school) We have since then always had some sort of mild sex that goes like this: one of us wants to talk, that leads to us laying on the bed, she takes a few beers, shots, or a glass of wine, she takes her clothes off, she asks me if I want to see her in some lingeri, I say we could have sex if you want, she says im down, we fuck mildly for 5-10 minutes. Well we did the same thing a few weeks ago, but she didn’t want to stop. She went so far I didn’t know if I could get her to have orgasm this time(she is a very careful and fragile person). The day after she woke up in a bad mood. I asked her what was wrong and she just looked at me and said “I didn’t have any orgasm last night.” I responded with that she just went harder than usual. She ran out of the room and stared working. A few days later she got a package. I asked what it was and she said “I just got a dildo and a vibrator. Do you have a problem with that?” I was stunned. Was I not good enough for her? HONEST OPINIONS!
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I think the issue here is that she has to have alcohol to have sex with you, and that’s a problem you’re overlooking here.
EMBRACE THE VIBRATOR.
My gf has a hard time achieving orgasm normally. When we first started having sex she didn’t have an orgasm then we started doing what she needed to get off, which was really furious fingering while she masturbated. It was extremely tiring since it still took a while, but it worked.
Brought in a vibrator and vibrator alone it still takes sometime for her. Vibrator and fingering takes less time. Vibrator while I fuck her sometimes can get her off within like 2-3 minutes.
Don’t concern yourself with “can I get her off with my dick alone” but rather with can I get her off when we have sex”.
That said, like spac3ie said… you guys have other issues.
Why does she need to drink to have sex?
Why is she in a bad mood if she doesn’t have an orgasm? A lot of women don’t orgasm during sex and they’re perfectly fine with it.