I am currently mid 20’s, single and spending some effort into getting a girlfriend. I work in tech and have multiple jobs and businesses as well. I’m currently located in Canada and looking at moving to the US in the next few years. I will be splitting my time between Florida and Canada.
I’m concerned this might end up being a major issue in relation to my chances of finding a successful girlfriend.
What is a good way of conveying that this is something I am considering and would want long term? I really don’t want to do long distance relationship with someone so they would have to be willing to move with me.
I’m well aware this limits my dating pool among many other requirements and preferences I have.
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>I’m concerned this might end up being a major issue in relation to my chances of finding a successful girlfriend.
We’re putting the cart before the horse here. Lets do our best to not worry about the dynamics of a relationship we’re not even in yet. For all we know we could be worrying about nothing.
You need to date casually until your life is stable enough to support a relationship. Don’t stress, you’re young.
You’re worrying too much about the future that isn’t your reality at the moment. You’re plans now are likely to change in the next few months to years. Get a girlfriend first but even with the first step of having one is you’re struggling. You seem to envision a perfect girl that will go with whatever you want in life whether be with your crazy lifestyle and that’s almost impossible lol