My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. We started LDR in 2021 and we met last October 2022. He will return this June 2023.. I wanted to make love with him, but I’m scared knowing that I grew up from a highly religious family. However, there is a desire to have sex with him because I am extremely horny all the time, what I always do is to stimulate my clit. I so wanted to make love but I feel guilty :((
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Take a stand here, beliefs or sex. That’s the easier way to do it. If your mind picks sex, make love to him passionately without giving a fuck to your beliefs. The hardest part will be the post sex guilt, in case you get them just remember that you made a choice and decided with a sound mind. Seek your bf help and his words could provide the comfort you need.
There is not much to be done here… if you genuinely believe there is a supreme being out there that not only is interested in your sex life, but will also be angry or disappointed if you HAVE a sex life then you probably shouldn’t have sex.
Personally I always found the idea of some peeping tom god a little … weird. But we are not here to judge your beliefs.
Good old religion. Number one cause of repression since the beginning of time.