How to know if a guy is interested but doesn’t show it?

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2. Best way to find out is ask 😉 that’s the only way you’ll know for sure. If you like him shoot your shot

3. take that chance sis! shoot yo shot n see what he says! best of luck ❤️

4. guys always make it obvious

5. Maybe invite him out for drinks

6. If he initiates the conversation then you can bet he finds you attractive or likable. Have lunch with him and see if he’d like to go out some evening.

7. Mixed signals are a no, unless you are clear or he clearly mentions you’d never know. You want know unless one of you asks. Good luck

8. Don’t date coworkers

9. Tell him that you had a crappy day and that you sure could use a Hug. Depending if and how he holds you should be pretty obvious of his feelings.

10. Give it a bit maybe a week or two and you may find out

11. Usually you have a gut feeling someone is interested based on subtle mannerism. But a clear sign someone is interested is if they are down to hang with you most of the time you suggest it.

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    Every time I ve been unsure about a girls level of interest she hasn’t been romantically interested. I think the confusion comes from the fact that a girl might display behavior that suggests interest just cause she likes you platonically, but the difference with a girl who is actually interested is the latter shows consistent interest and is down to hang all the time.

12. If he doesnt show it then hes not

13. I’d say ask him maybe ,

14. Wow, some people are being loved.

    You might wanna ask. There is no certain way to understand this since there is no certain way of showing it.

15. Be forward with men. Ask him, but don’t accuse him

16. If he appears soothed or more calm around you, he maybe experiencing an oxytocin release and he loves you.

17. As a guy I’ve always wondered the other way around..

18. if he stares at you

    accepts invite to hang out

19. Dump this guy. If he doesn’t talk nicely to most people, you will be next.