Me(19) and my girlfriend(21) tried having sex for the first time this morning. We put the protection on, I stimulated her vagina for a bit until she was wet. My pennis was hard, but not as always. It might be because she gave me two blowjobs in the past 24 hours? I never felt like my pennis wasn’t hard enough until it was the time to put it in. Can’t I just put it in like this? Or do I need it to be really hard? My pennis was erected but it didn’t felt like it was too hard. We didn’t use lubricant. Should I take Viagra or something? I’ll wait until tomorrow when she’ll come back and we’ll try again. Any tips?
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Yeah it needs to be somewhat hard for penetration to actually work. Did you finger her first? Going down and fingering her first to give her an orgasm can help the whole area relax and be more flexible for penetration. And definitely use lube.
Yes you do need to be hard or you risk just slipping out. Use lube for god’s sake, it’s the absolute best and easiest way of making sex more straightforward. If you’re too nervous for PIV to work then do other sexual things together til you get more used to that level of intimacy
You should concentrate on the foreplay and finger her before penetration. In this situation, If you can finger her and can’t penetrate, then your erection could be an issue here. Also it could be difficult to penetrate her if that is her first time doing PIV sex. Next time, do a bit more foreplay, finger her properly, use lube and then try penetration, top up the lube if you feel dry. Be slow and consistent with it. Any amount of force, won’t do anything good other than hurting her or making the experience more painful.
This is quite normal for your first attempts,
you are probably just too excited to fully relax.
No, you don’t need viagra.
I had this same exact issue with the baddest woman on campus. Bro she cried cause I couldn’t get hard enough….
I never heard from her again….