Usually when we “do the dirty”, he’ll ask me where i want him to cum. Im not on BC, so obviously ill answer something specific like face or throat, not inside me. But lately he’s been hitting this specific angle , and everything inside me wants to scream “cum in me daddy”! I don’t say it, but then after sex I’m a little sad that I didn’t say what I want, and have to remind myself how expensive Plan B is. Still, I’m upset I didn’t ask for or get what I want.
What’s going on? Why is it this one angle ? He’s the best sex I’ve ever had, and I keep experiencing new wonderful feelings, we are very open to trying new fantasies and wishes …. but This one I need to control LOL
I’m 40. We aren’t in a serious committed relationship, and I’m too old to be getting pregnant.
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There are always condoms.
Just keep fighting the good fight, and think about having a human rely on you until you’re at least 60.
FYI – emergency contraception is $5.99 at Costco but you’re only limited to two per visit. I purchased last week.
Is regular bc not a option? I only ask cause finishing inside ALWAYS feels better and in my experience that’s the case for both parties
you may be having lil too much fun
1) Invest in an IUD
2) he’s hitting the fun spots (front-facing wall)
1. Psychologically I think when he’s on top it may feel like a difference of power. As a woman you have recognized his power and naturally, want to give him the best feeling option available to him so he will be pleased and you’ll get to do it again.
Plus. It feels HELLA fuckin good to cum inside a woman with no condom lololol
2. My wife LOVES when I’m on top because she gets to see my arms and shoulders flex, loves the noises I make, and loves sharing that release when I finish inside.
3. People have also mentioned, he may be hitting your g spot or stimulating your clit while he’s on top which is sending more good feelings to you and of course you’re body is like “Give me more of that and I’ll reward you”!
4. One more thing…. if you want him to cum inside you, all you’ll have to do is utter that phrase above and it will be all over. However…
“With great power, comes great responsibility” 🔥
Maybe he’s hitting your G-spot.
>Still, I’m upset I didn’t ask for or get what I want.
A few things that could help are condoms, birth control such as pills, implants, IUDs.
As you mentioned he’s big, he’s likely hitting either your anterior or posterior fornix. It’s the area that encircles your cervix and for many women, when stimulated, produces some huge orgasms. This area can also be stimulated anally, which is why some women cum from anal. So, in short, if you want him to cum inside of you, try anal. Although the likelihood of pregnancy is greatly diminished with anal, especially if he cums deep inside your ass, it’s not one hundred percent, but then again, neither is any other birth control method.
y’all have unprotected sex w ppl ur not in a committed relationship w ??? hope u guys got tested cause ew
I feel the same way!
I end up saying “In me, In me, please!” When he’s about to cum and he always pulls out but i feel like having him cum in me would throw me to the edge too. Last week he even asked if I was on birth control yet (working on it) and I informed him I wasn’t, but lord. Sometimes it feels so good that you just want to be marked inside. Anyways.
BIRTH CONTROL IS YOUR BEST FRIEND! (Coming from someone that hates the feeling of condoms)
If you definitely don’t want any more kids,and you’re in a long term relationship, can you not get your tubes tied? Or better yet, ask him to get a vasectomy?
Get. On. Birth. Control. Ffs. Why the hell are you not having safe sex of any kind?
Just saying, you can get pregnant even if he doesn’t cum…
What do you mean by you’re too old to get pregnant?
condoms are always going to be the better option for this…but from a girl who has a breeding kink, look for morning after pills on amazon. i have bought a couple for like $8-10. but always make sure that the reviews are high, and that there are a lot of reviews !! also, don’t rely on morning after pills for this. taking them often will fuck up your cycle.