Ive been masterbating since I was 15. I remember lying I went to the University down the block and my friend and I went into the smoke shop and convinced an employee to hurry up and sell me a vibrator bc I “had to get to class” LOL.
Back then being a virgin, I’d squirt and be an endless water oasis using my toy secretly in my room. Well now that I’m an adult in my late 20’s, my flower is literally immune to squirting. I can’t squirt from vaginal intercourse unless I’m getting off myself since I know my “spots” – its tough because now I know my body and angles and know exactly what I like, how fast or deeply penetrated I like it but it’s difficult for my bf since he loves squirters and I can’t squirt anymore.
My bfs peepee is really big so although it feels amazing, his peepee is so long it doesn’t hit the right spongey spot! His peepee reaches my cervix and not the G Spot that makes me squirt. He doesn’t like his thing in half way (that’s where my G Spot is), he likes his thing all the way to the base.
Now to talk about anal play, I notice when I finger my bottom, it’s like foreplay and gets my clit throbbing like hell – Like I’m gonna cum really hard. So recently when he’s been having intercourse with me he fingers my bum and I get loud and kinda lose it. Which is insane because I’m no longer easily turned on but him fingering my bum makes me feel absolutely EUPHORIC.
He once came in me vaginally while fingering the other hole and it gave me such bad “blue balls” I was in REALLY bad euphoria (in a good way) I LITERALLY started BAWLING, yes, Crying! I didn’t cum but My eyes were so low, all I could tell you is that him fingering my bum made me want to “listen” IF YKWIM!
He jokes alot and says he’s figured out I like anal play but every time he sticks his peepee in me, it feels so good but I am so damn loud since it’s painful but I’m ok with finger play. It’s unfortunate because id really like his thing in me but I seriously can’t handle it. Numbing cream and tons of lube is a big no for me. It just doesn’t work. Either my bum bleeds and even today I accidentally poo’d on him a little and he laughed about it.
I don’t really care since realistically you are playing with the back end, I’d expect that to happen sometimes. I usually don’t eat if I do anal play and I cleaned and fingered my bum really well before letting him play with me and this is the first time I had that “accident” on him.
We want to spice up our sex but I just can’t handle anal with his big ol thing. I thought we should stick to finger play or I can invest in a butt plug but at some point I’d like him to be able to have “other options” yet my bum just hurts after LOL.
SOS anal players, what do you do? How did you ease into it? Tell me everything about your experience, I’d love to read it! Seriously, I’m pretty comfortable talking about sex.
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Try finger but hole
OK clearly I think you SHOULD invest in a buttplug set and a douche. When I first got into anal those were the things I bought, they shouldn’t be expensive either, I bought them off of Amazon. A set would preferably consist of 3 different sizes and before doing anal activities with your boyfriend, you should do some preparation such as using the douche (Look up a guide on how to use one) to clean your anal cavity (until the water coming out of you ass is clear), then putting a plug up there maybe like 30min-1 hour before sex (I’m not sure about how long, probably 30 min is good enough). Probably start with the smallest size and maybe upgrade if it is too small (I felt like it was too small), then after having it up there for a good amount of time, maybe just start with your boyfriend fingering you then try his thing in you. Try if that works!
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BTW. I think also not eating a lot prior to anal might also be a good idea in addition to cleaning yourself out, as it will reduce any accidents !!