Repost as there was a glitch in last attempt
I’ve been with my gf for 6 months. She broke up with her boyfriend of 4 years around May /June 2022. His name was Adam. She proceeded to date someone named Mike as a rebound (these are her own words) until around September 2022.
We met online in December and we are long distance. I see her for one week once a month. I’ve met her family and they adore me. We are both middle eastern and dating is usually for the long term. She’s stated she’s truly in love with me, that I’ve treated her better than everyone else she’s met and she’s made efforts to send gifts, be thoughtful and verbally/physically show appreciation. She FaceTimes me every single night and she voluntarily shared her location with me. She has not posted me on social media yet but she plans to in a week when I see her again.
My gut feeling, which could be due to paranoia, is ringing alarms and waving the red flags based off her previous relationship with Mike. She directly said she saw no future with him and that she was just with him to move on from Adam. Once she realized he took the relationship very seriously, she broke it off.
My gf still has her ex Adam on social media. Her likes her pictures, posts stories about how his heart is broken and he clearly is referring to her. She’s literally showed me these things and told me about them. I asked her why she wouldn’t consider removing him and she stated that she doesn’t see a reason to remove him. She still likes his pictures and it seems like she might still have some feelings there.. she has a hidden folder she’s showed me with hundreds of pictures of them together. I asked her if she would delete them and she said yes. She told me she deleted all pics from 2022 but there are so many that she doesn’t have time to sit and delete which I understand.
My head is spinning because on one hand she says she’s deeply into me and she talks about our future but on the other hand I’m seeing these red flags or maybe I’m just being paranoid? Please help me. I feel as though if he comes back around one day she will drop me for him. I am not feeling as though I lack anything, I’m accomplished and attractive and she always tells me I’m the best she’s ever had but these red flags torment me. conclude this?