I’m sure this question has been asked before, but I (23F) am thinking of losing my virginity and there is this guy I sorta have my eyes on. He seems to be very well experienced in the sexual field, and have caught him glancing at me in the past so I am sure he might take up the offer. But, if I were to text him (still thinking about it though) how would I go about it? I am sure it is a very awkward (and embarassing) thing to ask so any advice? And how would one go about asking for condoms, testing, etc?
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It doesn’t have to be embarrassing, you’re two adults talking about sex. You have multiple ways to achieve it. First, ask him bluntly if he’s down for a hookup. If he’s into the idea you can ask for testing. Or do the Netflix and chill. This is more “subtle” but getting tests will be a bit hard
If you are mature enough to have sex, you are mature enough to say what you want.
If you are having sex just to lose your virginity, don’t.
It is better to wait until it is a person you care about who cares about you.
If you do this, you are likely to have a negative emotional fall out of the current plan.
I Think the no1 rule of all sex is besides consent and all that is to never have sex with an experienced person. It could lead to judgement, humiliation, gossip, etc. it’s like playing basketball for the first time ever against Michael Jordan just stay safe and I would recommend losing it to another virgin