Long story short i’ve (18M) been watching porn since around the age 10 sadly, I used to do it everyday almost in middle school and 5 times a week in high school before covid. But when covid hit i got a girlfriend and i’ve been with her since and she’s the best.
I cut back on porn a lot since being with her, the first year i was still watching frequently but then I started to try to quit a few times and did actually quit for a couple months about 3-4 times. I’ve never had performance issues as i have a high sex drive but my partners is lower then mine. But i’ve been trying to lean off of it and i cannot go a week without using porn.
It’s almost every week or two weeks i break it and watch porn, sometimes twice in the same day and then i quit for another week and the cycle repeats. I feel as it’s good that i can quit it for a week and not have issues but once that day 7 mark hits I just want to enjoy some porn, but i feel terrible about it, i feel like all the bad stuff i’ve heard about porn on the internet has warped my view on it and that it has a placebo effect on the mentally.
My girlfriend has no issue that i’ve watch porn as we’ve talked about it before and since i don’t ever turn her down or have issues performing, I just wish i could look at and enjoy porn in a positive way.
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Of course you don’t have performance issues at your age, or shouldn’t.
You stop accessing porn as often when you’re making your own regularly. How is your girlfriend with that? Is she down for a daily “shoot?” How about multiple scenes per day?
Watch the amateur/community stuff on pornhub if you feel guilty about the porn industry. There are quite a few of them on there that openly admit they also get off on the voyeuristic aspect of it. Buy some of their content and just watch that stuff then, knowing that you’ve helped support someone’s livelihood.
you just can’t bro. your literally showing signe of someone being attached to porn. it’s not normal to have the need to look at porn. even though i know my take will be downvoted since this sub is proporn, you can’t have an « healthy relationship » with porn, be cause porn is not healthy.
think about why you want to look at porn first ? why you want that ? what’s the point of it if you have an amazing healthy relationship with your gf?
There is no positive way in porn buddy.