For me, it’s sexual compatibility.
Context:
I’ve talked to a guy whose love language is physical touch, so their main concern is sex & having lots of it, like 5 times a week (“or every time we see each other, preferably before going out to dinner and doing anything wholesome”, his words…)
I totally understand that physical attraction, sex & sexual compatibility is such an important aspect of a relationship, but expecting it 5 times a week, long-term seems like a lot to keep up with for me personally. Does anyone else feel that way?
Maybe I just think it’s a lot because it’s not my main love language, and I generally put more emphasis on a connection outside of the bedroom first.
Me and said guy are obviously incompatible and wouldn’t last in a LTR.
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For me it’s when they’re bad at communicating, it’s just so frustrating dealing with someone like that when I love to communicate. Plus it makes me feel like the guy doesn’t care about me because it’s easy to communicate it’s just a matter of whether or not they want to. And because it’s already bad enough men and women have a difficult time understanding each other so why make things more difficult and confusing for no reason?