Vaginal sex feels good to me but i actually come to tears nearly everytime i do it. Even with a toy. I feel like im being slowly electrocuted, it feels good but then its just so overwhelming that i can’t talk or anything. and when i do i sound like im sobbing.
Any ideas as to why i feel this way? Or advice on how i could reduce the feeling?
I tried Anal on my own the other day and oddly enough it felt better. Tbh i’ve always found it hot when a guy im with just pushes between my ass and plays around there. They dont lol they just wanna stick it in the front ahah.
i would be very nervous about mentioning this to somebody in the future as even women in my friend group are all very quick to diss anybody with the interest.
I’m just looking for some advice from somebody who has more experience going about this.
Thanks đ
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Youâre young and the vaginal feeling is likely climax building. Many people describe it as a sudden urge to pee or âtoo muchâ sensation. Have you powered through before and reached orgasm?
As to ass play, youth wonât help as many guys are too quick on the draw at that age, but at the same time no/few partner will turn down anal. You may need to be more direct with what you want.
Communication is key, and if you tell a guy you want to do anal – Iâm most certain it wonât be awkward nor an issue. Make sure you communicate if you need to warm up (and how) and/or if you need lube though.
I can say my wife has much more intense orgasms from anal play.
Looks like your butt’s got the upper hand. Don’t be shy, communicate your desires clearly. Happy exploring!
Fortunately, you are not going to do anal with women in your friend group, so no need to worry about what they say. Most guys will be happy to learn you like anal tho. But then again, you might need to educate them about the necessity of lube and being careful with your butt. If you are afraid that youâll bump into a guy who hates anal, then maybe you might want to try something more indirect first. Observe how he acts during casual sex, does he try to kiss your butt or play with it? Then suggesting anal is pretty safe. Or suggest having sex with you wearing an plug, how he will react? Or try asking him if he likes how your butt looks like. If he says something âuhm I try not to look thereâ, then yeah, he might not be into anal, but itâs kinda rare.
Not uncommon. Shouldnt be worried, just make clear what you like. Many guys will be happy to make you happy .
Lots of women seem to
Say no to Anal and some really enjoy! To each their own and some guys love it and others think of as taboo. Enjoy yourself and what feels good
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I’m 32 and prefer it. My situation is a little bit opposite where vaginal feels dull most of the time compared to anal. I have also discovered that I need lube for vaginal just as much as anal.