I have been single for 4–5 years; I have dated a few after that, but nothing was special or lasted long enough. Then, I went into a blank phase that was mainly focused on myself, dealing with my thoughts, and building the structure for my future without much focus on my dating life.
But now I feel that I should be going on dates or at least having casual sex with a girl, and that’s been a long time since that didn’t happen. I kind of don’t feel anyone is interested in me. Maybe I’m not a good texter or talkative person and im genuine and straightforward with my thoughts. I do have a life for the people who are wondering if I do have hobbies (multiple), and I read that I am good with people.
But as for dating life, that’s where my struggle shows up. Any advice on what I should work on or ways to attract a good partner?