Ok so a couple of weeks ago a cute girl followed me on ig and I haven’t texted her. I was think of texting her because I have this plan in mind. We text for a couple of days and if the vibe is good, hangout in real life. If that is going well then we officially become friends. After a couple of months of being friends hopefully if we both are attracted to each other and want to advance our friendship into a relationship, (and if we are both ready), it is good then to start dating. What is the best non corny line I can say to start a convo? I don’t want to fail at this because I have many, times before and I also don’t want to lose the follow.
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That sounds like a good plan. Why not just. Hi, I saw that you like (some shit she’s intrested on from her profile) and I was wondering (some question you have about that thing)
That’s how this guy messaged me on this site one time. Most effective approach ever. Pretty sure he plays on expert level.
Don’t go into the friend zone, you should set your intentions straight away. If you pretend to be her friend she will think “all this time you pretended to be my friend to get to me”
Having a plan for how things are supposed to go with someone else is a recipe for failure dude. She’s not preprogrammed software. She WILL do something unexpected.