I recently met with a girl who is lovely and funny and I felt like we got on really well. We had a couple drinks and went for a chilled drive and just started chatting shit whilst listening to music.
Come the weekend I messaged her to see if she wanted to meet up again but she left it so late to reply that I said I’d made plans instead and that we’ll just leave it this time.
I haven’t heard back since and I feel I may have been a bit too rash with my message but at the same time I don’t want to wait around all week to plan something.
I like this girl, we had a good time and I’d love to see her again but I feel I may have upset her.
Is this a “cut your losses” situation and move on or do I try to be empathetic and try to get us back on level terms?
Hit me with the truth, I probably won’t like it but I need to hear it from other people.
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Absolutely not, plan a fun date, have a couple nights that work for you, ask which night she prefers and see how she responds. If she joins you great, if she offers a different time then you see if that works for you. If she flat out says no, cut your losses.