Hi, I’m 23 (F). Long story short, a month ago, i matched with this guy on tinder. He was a surgeon, his age is 35. A good looking and an extremely fit man. A lil backstory that I was in a relationship but i broke up with him and then decided to go for casual sex only. So this surgeon I ment on tinder, we started talking, shifted on insta, few calls happened and then he asked me to meet. We both knew we have a chemistry. I have a very high Sexual drive. Also, I’m a passionate and wild person, i enjoy sex and never be afraid for asking for more. We met, we made out, we didn’t have sex but i gave him blowjob and he loved it. Since then, he would never stop telling me how amazing I’m at giving blowjobs and how I am a dream for any man. Also, he loves my boobs (it’s big). He would compliment my face and my body literally all the time we meet or even on insta. Trust me when I say this, I had the best sex of my life with him, my preference is big dicks and he has a big dick, when he used to fuck me, I used to be in the state of euphoria. The pleasure none of my exes could ever give me, perhaps because they were always average in size. He used to hit my cervix and I loved it. He has an erratic work schedule because of him being a surgeon so we would not meet often but when we used to meet, we used to fuck like bunnies. I never enjoyed giving blowjobs until I met him.
Apart from sex, he was a very rigid person, he would always talk to me when it’s about sex. He would never cuddle after sex. Basically he was an emotionally unavailable person and also he has traits of a fuckboy which I knew but I ignored. Once I was at his place, he even screamed at me because I touched his watch in a wrong way and many other times for the same silly reasons. But i always ignored because I just wanted the sex and I didn’t wanna lose it. Also, he’d told me his pull out game is strong, so we’d always fuck raw, he was the first guy who fuck my ass and i started loving anal sex because of him. He was very dominating and confident in bed. But he would not last long. 20 mins Max he would last. And I’d always want for second rounds for more timing but he would never listen to my needs. He was very selfish in bed but i was okay with it because I was loving the sex and the dick anyway.
Few weeks ago, he was telling me how he wants to fuck my mouth and he wants me to lick his cum from his dick, i agreed, I was ready for all this. But after a few days, he texts me saying “he doesn’t wanna continue doing all this, he doesn’t wish to continue fucking and all, he wants to put an end to all this”.
When I asked why he said, he is just not feeling it. And then i said that was the whole point to not feel and still fuck. He was adamant about not fucking so I let him go and then he unfollowed me on insta and all.
To be honest, it did hurt me, because i somewhere was seeing this as long term fucking. We fucked only 5 times. I thought we would fuck more because the entire time he was smitten by me and by my beauty. I miss the sex. I miss his dick inside me. What could be the possible reason for him stopping all this so suddenly?
Mind you, he is not dating anyone and he barely has time to talk to multiple girls, he is also over his exes so that’s not what it is.
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Possible reason? He found someone else to fuck or maybe serious relationship.
Not a big loss for you long term based on what you described tho.
Sounds pretty toxic to me. You’ll find good sex elsewhere but a selfish arsehole like this would be best avoided.
> What could be the possible reason for him stopping all this so suddenly?
We can’t know this. All we can suggest is that you move on asap. Maybe there’s a lesson here about emotional availability and getting attached? I hope you find someone just as sexually compatible with you who is also a good partner for you.
Be glad that it ended. Maybe you enjoyed sex and wanted to stay in this arrangement just for that. But here me out when I say that it’s a toxic arrangement just because of the fact that not only was he a fuckboy but also treated you just like his sex toy rather than a human.
>Also, he’d told me his pull out game is strong, so we’d always fuck raw,
Idk what to say, but being a surgeon he should have known and behaved better.
>What could be the possible reason for him stopping all this so suddenly?
Maybe he had an awakening and had a change of mind about how his sexual relationships should be or became fond of another woman or wasn’t interested in you as you are interested in him, etc., There are too many possibilities here that we could go back and forth without any actual use.
Yup he got bored sorry sweety your 23 and he’s 35 and a surgeon. Think of this you learned a lot about sex from him what u like don’t like something positive to take away and a learning experience