I’m confused. I met this girl through a friend of mine they worked together. It started I would see her every once and awhile and would talk briefly, even if it was brief we would like joke around and talk shit to each other (she’s one that seems like if she talks shit and bullies you she’s cool with you which I’m the same so it worked lol)

We recently hung out with said friend for longer than normal and exchanged snap and couple days later numbers. We started hanging out more never just me and her but with her friends or my friends which was cool because while I think she’s cute I like her as a person and haven’t thought about her as much more than a friend even though I wouldn’t be against it if she had feelings for me.

So I recently met one of her friends when we were all together and got her number, I mentioned it to her just saying I was going to see if she would meet us somewhere and she said “wait you have her number?” And I said yeah. A couple days later we’re hanging out and that came up with my friend and I said “yeah she seems cool so I have her number” and the girl says “she’s just alright” even though it’s like her best friend since like elementary school. I still really didn’t think much of it because if I enjoys someone’s company I like hanging out with them.

So a couple days after that I texted her friend and just said “hey I’ll be here tonight slide through if you’re not busy.” So her friend ends up coming and I send her a snap of us all hanging (she was invited but couldn’t come) and she opened it and hasn’t talked to me since. We had a streak on snap it ended, I’ve texted her once it got no reply. Did I do something wrong here? I never got the vibe she wanted to be anything more than friends so I’m just really confused.

2 comments
  1. you did nothing wrong. but it’s pretty obvious she’s a little jealous or feels some type of way that you got her friends number.

    maybe she only wants you as a friend all to herself. maybe she wants you more than a friend to herself.

    be straightforward with her and tell her you noticed she’s been acting distant ever since you started hanging with her friend. tell her you’re confused and don’t understand why. that’s the only way to truly answer your question.

  2. Not to sound condescending or anything, but if you want to stay friends with her and you’re hurt, definitely yay to communicate and ask her.

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