Women, what are your thoughts on anal?

9 comments

1. i don’t like the feeling and never will.

2. Every woman is different. For some women and anatomies, it can be a good way to stimulate the posterior fornix for a penetrative orgasm. I knew a woman who didn’t like anal, but after child birth it was the only way she’d have a penetrative orgasm. For some combined with vaginal or clitoris glans stimulation can create a powerful overwhelming sensation and orgasm. For others it more about the kink and novel stimulation. For others, even with lots of lube and toys of progressive sizes it is uncomfortable and they can’t enjoy being that vulnerable or don’t like the prepwork or the guy has too big of a dick or that there is a risk of mess. For some its painful, and for a select few they may like that specific type of pain.

   Also a lot of peeps just hate it. Like there is a nice self lubricating hole right near by where the nerves and anatomy were specifically designed for enjoying a bit of penetration so why bother with the extra stuff.

3. answers from my perspective:

   it is more intense at first then it tones down

   no it does not feel better, it feels like air is filling my abdominal cavity in the most uncomfortable way and i have to shit, and if there isnt enough lube it just feels like hell on earth. after maybe 5-8mins its like alright

   uhh no reasons of taboo here just dont like shit going up the shitter

   i do hate it, slightly less if im drunk

4. Surely a vagina and a mouth are sufficient. I will give good service that way. My issue is that it can’t be good for long term health for someone to stretch my arsehole and I couldn’t deal with the mess and the pain.

5. I love it, not only does it physically feel amazing but mentally and emotionally too.

   However you need good communication and trust with your partner. I need to be the one in charge of initial penetration as I work up to taking all of him inside me as my muscles etc relax. Once he’s all the way inside then we are both good to go.

6. Hate it. Feels like you’re shitting yourself on the backwards thrust, and that’s after the pain of getting it in (yes even with lube and foreplay cause it’s not a hole meant to be entered). I have a perfectly good vagina!

7. Love it!

8. For me (41f) anal is way more intense and feels better than vaginal. I think when I was a teenager, the taboo of it made me want to try it but it doesn’t feel tabboo at all anymore. Most of the women I know are doing it at least occasionally and aren’t ashamed to admit it.

9. Love it! It feels incredible, I orgasm every time. But I need to decide when we are doing it, as I am nervous about mess so need to ensure I have time to do the prep.