I’m early 30’s female, and I think my sex drive has been quite low for at least a few years, and it only seems to be decreasing more and more. I had my hormones tested a few months ago, and they were all normal. I quit birth control several years ago. I miss getting excited and wanting sex. I miss getting super wet from sexual excitement. What might be the reason? Is there anything I can do?
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Did you consider a therapy?
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Do you masturbate? Do you have orgasms?
Do you have trouble finding romantic / sexual partners or trouble with motivation to find romantic/ sexual partners?
I don’t have an answer for you but I came here to say same. I’m 30 and have been with my partner for almost 7 years now, talking about engagement, and we have sec maybe once every 3 months because I’m just never in the mood for it. I never masterbate for the same reason which then makes sex painful when we do have it, making me want it less. I used to have such a high libido, and we fucked like bunnies because of it. Now? I feel 80. Anyway, I have no answers and was actually hunting Reddit for some answers to this too and figured you might also find comfort in at least knowing you’re not along. Hang in there sis!