So, I (15m) was at my girlfriends house (16f) and we were “home alone” because her dad was showering and her grandma went to pick up her sister from school, which was a great opportunity to have my first time (she already had it)
So, we went to the kitchen, so if anybody entered the house we would have time to dress up fast, and act like we were making coffee, so, I put a condom, which was very tight (I had to grab it by the base and pull down) and kind of uncomfy, and to be honest, the kitchen is not the best place for the first time.
After putting the condom, I put it inside and started penetrating like for a minute. Then, we heard her grandma opening the door and we dressed up really fast, and then nothing happened.
So, my question is, am I still a virgin or does this count as my first time?
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Virginity is mostly a recent construct, it means what you want it to mean. Did you have sex? Technically, yes, but also, what is sex? That can mean what you want it to mean also, some people only do oral, some do piv, some only use hands, if you want to count it as your first time, then congrats! Time to practice. However, if you feel like it wasn’t the experience you wanted, well then it’s time to practice!
Bottom line, you choose what it means to you, good on you for using a condom though, be safe, have fun, and try some things out.
That counts as your first time.
Doesnt sound great so I recommend trying a second time. And a third. And a forth. and…….
Lmfao ever heard of foreplay
I had a girlfriend in highschool. I went down on her and made her cum so.many fucking times. But my dick didn’t go in. She only said yes to that under stressful situations. It never happened. Are we virgins? Yes / no doesn’t matter. We had oral sex….