How do i help ;c

the person im flrting with and their flirting back had one of their ace flux moments today, and we are pretty close, but they left our nsfw groupchats and said they didnt like our nsfw art together at the time, and the past nsfw stuff makes em feel weird,i got a bit offended by it cause im sensitive and i was sad she found our past stuff weird, she said she wishes she felt the same way about nsfw as i do, i offered to help her with her feelings towards nsfw, shes had abusive exs before or maybe its a classic case of parents teaching “NSFW BAD!” ?? idk, but she seems to want to feel the same way i feel?? so i offered to help?? i dont want her to think its so icanget more nsfw, its not at all, id hate myself if i did nsfw with her w hen she didnt want, am i the bad person here? idk what to do