hi guys, my boyfriend and i are long distance and i never rlly had a problem with sending him pics and videos before but in the past year i’ve gained weight and just haven’t been able to get myself to take pics again. idk what to do. i told him i’m self conscious but he tells me that he thinks i’m sexy and doesn’t care. how do i get out of feeling so bad about myself
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Finding the right lingerie can make a world of difference for your confidence. And maybe try looking up boudoir poses (I see tons of photographers sharing these on TikTok) to find good angles for your pictures that help you feel like the beautiful lady that you are!
I’m 99% sure he still finds you sexy no matter how you look so you probably don’t need to feel self conscious. I get that it doesn’t help how you may feel inside though, could you send him stuff that focuses more on the parts of you that you are happy with? Maybe sending him more stuff could even help with the confidence too