Ok so that title is a little misleading but not at the same time. I’m 18 right now and I started an online “relationship” with a girl I met on Instagram about 2 years ago when I was 16. Her and I clicked off the bat. Things were amazing. She understood me like nobody else. We would FaceTime every night for hours and act as if we were in a real relationship. Thing is we live about 4-5 hours apart and that’s rly long distance when your a teenager. We both agreed that we wouldn’t stop the other from finding a relationship irl though, So if we did find somebody, there would be no hard feelings and we would remain friends. Well about a year and a half ago she got into a relationship and told me she had to block me, which I understood. Thing is I thought only on social media. She has me blocked on everything and we haven’t spoken in roughly a year and a half. Im not sure if she’s still with the guy or not considering she’s taken the Instagram highlight of him down (I checked on a friends phone but she’s private account). I’ve tried messaging her on iMessage but I’m blocked and none of her other socials come up on my phone because I’m blocked. I think I’m asking what I can do? Is there any way I can reach out to her? I have no way to contact her. I just hope she hasn’t forgotten about me. I miss her immensely and I just want to have another conversation with her again, even if it’s just as a friends. I really cared for this girl. Any help is appreciated
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Pretty sure this is what you signed up for. Now it happened and you’re complaining?
Move on man why you tryna reach out to someone who blocked you? Find someone else
If she’s blocked you, that’s a clear message that she doesn’t want to talk to you. Anything to try and get around that is a big overstep of boundaries, so don’t do that. It’s time to move on
Blocked everywhere is her boundary. Don’t cross it. That’s about her— try not to make it about you if it helps you to respect it.
You agreed to this. She made her decisions. After a year, there isn’t much else you can do now but move on
Bruh just move on and find some girl that’s near ur place …..u need some hoodville lessons my boy