Hello guys, first of all
I’m about 16 i have very few friends I once was in a bigger Social circle but now I’m left. with a couple friends who rarely go out or with whom actually going out is very boring. I used to before having this bigger scoial circle, to be always lonely at home this was then “fine” because I was younger then but now while everyone is living their life to their fullest and going out alot partying etc. now especially during the summer break, I’m home alone and lonely, I do have hobbies even one at which I’m good at, but what’s the point if there’s no one i can show or cares.
I’m mentallly trying to distract myself while being on the phone, watching movies or gaming but it’s starting to bore me and I realise this is not the answer and I can’t just waste away those precious years of mine.
I actually have a crush whom I’m very affected to since years but she’s not in my social circle.
After i realised i can’t just live like this, i started to crave social contact ALOT and this just started to destroy me mentally even more, I started having more dreams which I won’t go into, and mentally i feel even more sad.
I do not know how to deal with this because all my days are really boring and i feel like I’m just wasting them, I don’t know if i can count myself as an Introvert or an extrovert. This Time in my life feels like the most difficult because everyone else is living their best life and are going out alot.
Btw I live not in a City but in a Village several miles next to a city, Nightclubs are not possible due to my age.
I hope someone can help me deal with this. 🙂
PS: I hope that you try to understand me and my situation as good as possible and hope that you bring your own opinion/experiences/ past and similar situation to this thread🙏