I want to rim guys more

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1. Just do it. If you ask, so many guys will say no. That’s how it happened with me. My ass was off limits but then I met a woman that changed my mind. It feels amazing and any guy would love it. Even a pinky in his ass while you blow him. Just my opinion.

2. Just do it. He’ll either groan welcomingly, or pull you away, and then you’ll know.

   Also, sneak up on it. Start with the base, and if that goes over, tickle his perineum. If that’s still welcome, go for it.

3. Do not surprise someone with a rimjob! 😅 You should talk to your partner beforehand so he can prepare how he wants to (and also to know whether he even wants you to eat his ass at all). People don’t have their assholes ready to be licked 24/7, you will both definitely want him to take a shower beforehand.

4. Some guys are sensitive about it, and some people in general would like to get a heads up first just so they’re prepared. I’d say definetly don’t try to surprise them…

5. Ask first or You might spook Him and end up being kicked in the face.

6. In my experience, ask first. If it’s a hookup, just ask. If you’re developing some relationship and you feel insecure about asking, both of you could take one of those questionnaires about sexual preferences/kinks 🫠

7. Each guy is different, and we don’t know your level of intimacy or communication with your guy. For that reason, there’s no definitive answer that you can get here, but you can look at your choices.

   On one hand , if you discuss it first that’s a great way to open up the possibility of it happening because you’ll know whether or not he’s interested.

   On the other hand, you’ve already said that you might want to just do it during oral. You did not say whether or not you also play with his testicles in any way during oral. If you touch them or if you use your mouth on them, then just slowly work your way down below there and gauge his reaction.

   You never know, he might even want you to do it, but he’s not brought it up yet or doesn’t quite know how to bring it up.

8. I was really young the first time a woman did it to me, and I had no previous concept of it even being a thing, I had never even heard of it before that, so when she did it to me , it was a complete surprise. A completely pleasant surprise. She did not seek nor have consent, she just did it, I am eternally grateful.

9. warn him. Make sure your warning does not come off as a joke if you are serious.

10. Roadapple Clopsalot.

11. Don’t do surprises when it comes to the bootyhole!

12. From a dude that was curious, if you already play with the balls, work on the back side of the balls and then ask if he likes how he feels, and then if you feel like you have reached his threshold, tell him it’s ok to enjoy it.

13. Suck and lick his balls while going down on him then ask him if you can “go lower” first time a girl did that to me I was intrigued and said go ahead, so hot and haven’t looked back.

14. Don’t surprise ANYONE with ANYTHING during sex lol. Except maybe a bj, and even then that should be slow and obvious about your intentions

15. Pick me

16. Nooooo surprises when it comes to anal anything

17. Surprise!

18. Always discuss beforehand.

    “So, hey, if you’re interested I’m really into giving rimjobs while I’m down there. So if ever you’re curious, let me know, ok? I’m down. Really down.”

    Also, make it seem like something they might GET to experience, not something they HAVE to experience.

19. If you don’t want to ask. And you (should) start by licking under his balls and see how far you can get before he says anything. Hell you never know, he just might lift his legs and let you.

20. We love it

21. Before hand lol, poopp bum no fun

22. I’d like to be surprised but probably not ever dude

23. It’s better to just not surprise a guy. Most guys are mainly vanilla even if they say they’re kinky. Unless you come across one that’ll name off enough links that would make the devil blush. It’s better to talk to your partner or find someone who’s down for it.

24. To quote Dan Savage… “use your words”. Ask.

25. Surprise seems like a bad idea I’ve only done this with my ex and his bum was always pristine soooo

26. This is prime dirty talk foreplay. Great way to test the waters to see if he’s down. Some dirty texts where you guys plan the naughty things you want to do is a good method for discovering kinks.

    I hope he’s down; everybody deserves a good rimjob.

27. Always talk about it first. I’m a bi guy, whos attracted to the idea of play in that area, but I’m also super conscious. A discussion of boundaries should always be part of the conversation, for both mental and physical preparation.

28. Depends on the guy. I’d enjoy it but many men are quite precious about their buttholes.

29. Coke to Conway and let’s make it happen.

30. Surprise rim would probably be a bad move. Just ask/tell him I want to run you