Me (19f) and my boyfriend (18m) of a few months have been dating for 3 months and have been friends for nearly 3 years. He’s my dream guy, he’s handsome, funny and he’s good in bed. He’s been with 6 girls before me. The first time we slept together, he came after an hour but the sex was amazing. I was pretty surprised as my ex lasted 30 mins on a good day. We spent this weekend together after two months of not seeing each other and we had sex two times. The first time started off really well, it felt amazing. We went for an hour and a half and he didn’t cum, I’d already cum and I was starting to feel sore and uncomfortable so I asked him to stop. I sucked him off after he pulled out and he still didn’t cum. The second time it was the same. I felt so awful about the fact that he just laid there with a hard-on. He told me he usually masturbates at least twice a day and watches porn whenever he does which has me thinking he has death grip? I don’t know what to do. It turns me off from initiating sex with him and makes me feel like I’m not good enough. He told me I just need to build up my stamina.
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30 mins to an hour of sex is too long. Even pornstars take a break on their set. This is not on you so don’t feel down. I think he has a problem tbh
Try specific dirty talk about cum. The more specific the better. Try working dirty talk Q/A into the mix too. Ask if what you’re doing feels good too, you might get some feedback.
If all else fails, maybe he needs a doc.