When do you call it!

TLDR my husband called me a bully today while I was crying asking for help and he was apparently texting someone busy

If you haven’t read my other posts, you might want to go back and check those out to get more of a backstory. So we have one high energy dog that I feel like we need to rehome. He was given to us and the lady was very unforthcoming with the truth of how wild he really is. Another older dog wandered up to the house this week so we tested out keeping both. I voiced some concerns with the dogs trying to figure out the pecking order and our 2 and 5 year old getting caught in the middle of it. I’m not saying we need to get rid of both of them, but just talk about it. Also my husband told me he refuses to clean up dog poop. So now I have 2x the food and water responsibilities and double the 💩. I told him we would try it out but I just feel entirely overwhelmed. When I voiced my opinions and he couldn’t bother to put his phone down or make eye contact, I said something about his phone being in his face while I’m trying to tell him how I feel. He told me he was talking to his brother…. Like why didn’t he say that in the first place so I didn’t feel ignored?!? Then he stomped off to the bedroom and started playing videogames on his phone. I let him cook off and tried to explain that I think we need to finish the conversation. He told me I am just a bully and I should just do whatever I want. All while continuing to play his stupid game. He couldn’t even bother to look up at me in tears. I’m just so done with this man.