I don’t know how closure works and I don’t know who to approach in my friend circle in this time.
So, I am in a real pickle here because my best friend is upset and sad at me. They prevented me entering any discord server for my sake that I don’t escalate something and for their sake that I don’t make them more uncomfortable. I did a big mistake towards my other friends as a result from me acting up on grief but I haven’t told them about yet because their still have negative feelings towards me.
Anywho, my best friend told me they are still there for me but my gut (?) or anxiety is telling me not to talk to them until this is all resolved.
Any other advice relating to this will be really helpful. I really lack social skills and I dependent it on how my friends interact with each other and sometimes videos of my favorite content creators.
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Delete discord, get some real life friends
Okay this might sound harsh, but take this with a grain of salt: closure is bullshit. It’s an excuse to keep you from moving on.
I don’t think I completely understand your situation here because of details being left out, but what I can say for now is that real friends should make you feel comfortable and validated, not exclude you. I think give these people space if they don’t make you feel good.
I gone thru that same thing so approach me, we can dm