Hi all
I have always been a weak personality. A total Beta. Pushover. I have never been included in groups. I was always overlooked. Whenever ‘friends’ made plans, i was excluded. I seem to command no respect. I’m Quite incredibly inconsequential. It always has been the case that people gang up against me – whether its mocking me to outright bully me, I have always found myself cornered. Never experienced loyalty from anyone, even my own blood relatives. I’m really fed up of living like a ‘dont care’ condition.
I’m timid, little to no aggression, subaverage IQ, closed minded, agreeable, highly neurotic
I want to be a valuable part of a worthy tribe. I want to feel and behave like other testosteronized males. How do I turn myself around ?
TIA
5 comments
Cultivate character.
I think you should start spending some time in the gym. Exercise is always a good idea, and you might meet up with some people you can fit in with.
Invest in your identity capital (see Defining Decade). Also check out brene brown and other people that talk about connection and passion
I think developing more confidence in yourself would help a lot. Find yourself through hobbies and passions and then find the right people who share your interests and values.
Please just don’t turn into Andrew Tate. The more people won’t want to hang around you.
Take fighting classes