My (F19) body and libido are mitch-matched now that my libido returned to me after a 2 year dry spell. It went away because my mental health took a huge dive.I used to only masturbate during ovulation out of desperation and necessity but now I’m back to feeling horny all throughout my cycle and I’m willing to masturbate every day like I used to previously.
That meme from Futurama where a guy says “the spirt is willing the but the flesh is weak” describes me to a T. I also have suddenly gained feeling internally so I want to masturbate that way as well but I am not used to the internal stimuli. My body basically can’t handle any stimuli after just one orgasm only using light pressure with my fingers whether it be on my clit or just fingering. I can only go once a day 2 orgasms a session at most before it becomes uncomfortable.
I want to take advantage of this time because should my mental health decline my libido goes with it. But I believe if I maintain a consistent routine and masturbate everyday I can continue have some type of enjoyable sexual experience on a daily basis. I’m asking for advice on what to do physically. For example should I push through the uncomfortable feeling or is there anyway to train myself to get used to more stimulation?
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You can find ways to orgasm without touching, it might take sometime. Someone here should know where to look for the information.
I’m not a woman, but taking breaks between periods where you masturbate can sometimes let you enjoy that feeling more and more often. It sounds like you might want to enjoy sex and masturbation more than once a day. Consider spreading things out a little bit rather than trying to get as many orgasms at once just because you can. in all at one. Masturbate to orgasm once or twice then give yourself some time to recover before masturbating again. I feel like sometimes even though a person can get a second orgasm not too long after the first it’s not quite as fulfilling when you push for it as soon as possible.
For instance I MIGHT be able to orgasm an hour after my first, but like you describe: it’s super sensitive and not quite as good as the first. But if I wait a little longer it can be so SO much better:-) After you masturbate try to go get some work done- go for a walk, visit with friends, get that grocery trip done or make yourself a good meal. Maybe you’re still kinda aroused during all of this- that’s cool! Savor it, and after some time has passed find someplace quiet and comfortable and enjoy masturbating again. Sometimes having that mental (and physical) space to focus on something else for a bit will make reaching orgasm more satisfying than just pushing through. The time will give the nerves in your genitals time to recover from all the exquisite pleasure you’ve been getting from them!
All that being said, if masturbation gets uncomfortable that’s your sign to take a break- not everyone can orgasm 2 or 3 or more times in quick succession and it better to wait until it feels good than to push through and inadvertently hurt yourself. If the wait after your 2nd orgasm is annoying, the wait to heal after you accidentally rub a spot too hard trying to reach your 3rd will be SUPER annoying.
I share that desire to fill the good time i have in this world with as much pleasure as I can. Sometimes moderation doesn’t mean you get LESS, but that you enjoy those things with more regularity. I’m wishing you all the best!