I (F) want to have a threesome with 2 AMAB nonbinary people. Every time I’ve seen a video of this it’s DP & I don’t want to do anal (i have ibs lol) would they expect that anal will be happening, is there a point in setting this up if I don’t want DP? It still sounds super hot to me, to suck a dick & get fucked at the same time. Would you be disappointed if anal wasn’t involved?
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Set your boundaries, if you don’t like or want anal, just say so. Communicate.
That’s entirely up to you. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.
The one sure way for it to be expected is for you not to make it clearly off limits due to you underlying health conditions. Anyone who would not understand this and accept this condition gracefully, is not a person for sharing any portion of your body with.
I have been in plenty of threesomes and orgies and still haven’t seen anyone do anal. It usually requires a lot of planning and prep work so unless discussed beforehand it would never be expected by any reasonable person
Yes yes and yes
Why that specific combination? That question is too vague but yes some men will be disappointed. Others will be ok. The important thing here is when you find potential partners, make it clear that your ass will never be involved in anyway. As well as any other restrictions. Then go all put
You can always do spit roast instead
I have had at least ten threesomes and lots of group sex. Never anal unless someone wanted it
Despite my earlier post which clearly made out that I was very vanilla and new, I’ve taken part before and it was actually more of a “spit roast” situation. I couldn’t picture skimming dicks with another guy during DP so that would put me off. If it isn’t a problem to your partners though, just blatantly say it’s not on the cards and they can either respect that or don’t engage. Porn isn’t real life and they pick certain positions and camera angles on purpose.
What is a AMAB non binary?
No , what’s expected is what’s agreed on.
Before you do it all 3 of you should have a conversation about boundaries and expectations and that’s when you tell them
No?
You should get a strap on and fuck one or both of them.
You should be very clear ahead of time there won’t be anal and it will be a split roast style.
Just tell them that is not on the menu, without question.
Not expected. Even in a Foursome or Gangbang, Anal isn’t expected necessarily but it can be asked or demanded (depending on the dynamic, like if the person getting it done is more submissive to their tops). If you enjoy it and they know it, you should all make it a point to communicate that if it’s on or off the table.
If one of them wants to fuck an asshole, tell them to fuck the asshole of the other one that has a dick, while you suck the dick of the one getting fucked.
Have had a threesome but never had anal during one. I don’t think it’s necessarily expected in any way. Oral + vaginal could work maybe?