hi every1 i (19m) love my (23f) gf, I love her with all of my heart but it happened we stopped to have sex with each other despite being horny and all. when the irl relationship began we had lots of it but by now we just get off on our fantasies, I cannot use my “part” due to phimosis and some other mental stuff. we love each other and we are in a strong monogamous relationship so no stuff like hook ups and inviting others peeps. we can just play with our genitals but I messed up myself so I don’t feel attractive to do other things. if u have been in a such situation please share ur advices
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r/phimosis is treatable and the sub should be able to advise you
Rebuilding intimacy might just do the trick….spend time together and be present not just physically but mentally and emotionally too. Communicate and share yoyr feelings, needs and desires. You see when intimacy slows down, everything else in a relationship responds to that and hits the brakes. You also ought to understand that intimacy works differently for both men and women.
Here is more info: https://loveywrites.com/why-intimacy-affects-men-and-women-differently/