We always expiremented without even having to express our kinks, and it was such a huge turn on. There was a time where he came on my face (I told him from the get go that he could cum in my mouth, I love to swallow) and he licked his cum off my face and spit it into my mouth before kissing me so passionately. I expressed how turned on I was, and he immediately got hard again and came in my ass. Other women he’d been with always described him as vanilla, but I never felt that way about him. I’ve never had another lover who got me off like he did; and I still haven’t been able to move on or be intimate with another man in 4+ years. Why is sexual preference and intimacy so complicated? Why are our sexual proclivities both so limited and exacerbated by different partners? I don’t even like kissing most partners, but I would make out with him until his beard left my face chapped, and still, I would want more.
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I feel this.
I can’t explain it. I believe it’s a combination of pheromones and the vibrational frequencies of our bodies.
We literally just resent well with certain people.
Sounds like an ideal situation, imo. Definitely not vanilla. lol
I think it’s really what we mean by chemistry. It’s not that two skilled sexual partners meet and have the same preferences and turn on, it’s that the meeting of partners bring out new turns on and new kinks that neither knew they had.
I had this in some extend with 3 sexual partners in my life, none of them are suitable to be in a relationship with. It was so easy to push the boundaries of my sexuality with them.
It’s a chemistry thing. For me, sexual “skill” is a myth. Every human body responds differently to stimuli. You become “good” at sex by listening to your partners and responding to feedback. Chemistry is a shortcut. If you groove with someone sexually you just give right and hit the right notes with little effort. It doesn’t happen for everyone all the time but when it does happen you never forget it.