This is embarrassing to ask, but how can I make sex more exciting again?
I mean the sex itself is thrilling, but I find the fact that I’m always avaible for sex when I’m at his place boring. Like, we cuddle and it turns into a makeout session, which turns into sex.
I would love for him to really, really want it before I actually give into it
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Something I do is I tie up my girlfriend, get lube and I give her a really sensual, slow massage, with slow kissing and a lot of gradual dirty talk, and teasing. By the time I fuck her she is literally screaming at me begging for it, it drives her fucking nuts and her orgasms are amazing when i do that.
Strongly recommend
Ask him for a massage session in your bedroom 🙂
You have to say “no” or “later” sometimes, even if you’re horny. Explain to him that you’re doing this to increase sexual tension and spontaneity. Not because you don’t want him.
Start in the morning, send suggestive little msgs,.maybe a slightly nsfw pic, and escalate throughout the day. It doesn’t have to be full nudes or sexting to be effective, just increasingly suggestive. By the end of the day, you’ll both me hungry for each other snd that may improve the time you’re able to spend together
Put on 50 Shades of Grey or a movie you find erotic, some way through the film get comfy and lay your head in his lap on a pillow and then start to play with yourself quietly under a blanket gradually getting more obvious until he notices, but pretend like you weren’t doing anything when he asks which will make him curious, then continue playing discreetly slowly reaching up with your free hand grabbing one of his hands squeezing it gently bringing it to your mouth after a moment of linking fingers and begin licking and sucking one of his fingers whimpering a little as you do.
Proceed to sit up in a gentle motion looking in his eyes and put your leg over his thigh and start to grind on his leg for a hot minute, if he tries to take control pin him back and tell him you’re in charge, then moving his hand down from your mouth to your muff have him play with you while you moan in his ear as you now suck slow and deep on his other hands finger’s making eye contact every so often. Now reach down with your other hand and grasp over his tracksuit bottoms what should now be a rock hard D, let him know you like it with a bite of your lip as you make heavy eye contact telling him it belongs to you.
You can take over from there 😉