So as the title says embarrassing as it is to put. I dont feel him in me vaginally half as much as I used to now all I can feel is when hes hitting the inside back or my cervix and then it just hurts. Sex used to be amazing but after having my now 15 month old I feel like I feel nothing I can tell something is going in me but that’s it I feel pressure. I just want to know if anyone else has had this experience any advice to try I am going to my obgyn in a week but I feel to embarrassed to say “hey by the way my vagina isn’t feeling like it used to” I dont want it to be a well you had a kid so you have to deal with it now sex will be dull oops. I feel like there has to be something or some advice on this but so far I’ve gotten no answers by google it just says a bunch of terrifying things. Help?
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Angelle, is that you?
Well you are probably going to have to say that to a doctor if you want to resolve the issue so you probably should just do it
This is really common after having kids. It’s vanishingly unlikely the OB will give a shit or be capable of helping. A pelvic floor physiotherapist which specialises in sexual function (as opposed to bladders) is a much better bet.