I’m going through a somewhat difficult time, and I vent to my friend (I don’t have the money or resources to get help ATM) he is good at talking me down, but half the time he will one up me. I’ve never had much real friends growing up and he’s one of my only friends. It could be me but it looks like one upping, this is how it goes.
(THE ISSUE WITH FRIEND)
I vent to him about something urgent, he (sometimes) ignores it. A handful of hours goes by. He then puts something as his status, and then when I say “what’s the status about” he finally talks and completely ignores my problems. If my post does not match the sub I will post in another, but I’m just asking if this is a bad thing or if I’m just sensitive and sheltered.
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If you are messaging him stuff that he doesn’t adress when he replies then you aren’t getting what you want out of it and should probably stop.
As for why he’s ignoring what you’re talking I can’t infer but it may be because of the repetitive nature of the venting.