What’s the best way to make a girl squirt

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1. First thing to understand is that squirting isn’t the norm, not every person can and many won’t want to even if they can. There’s no real benefit to it intrinsically, though some people do find it a turn on.

   If that’s something your partner wants, then there’s guides online for common techniques, but it will be a bit different according to each person, so don’t take any particular guide as gospel. The most common thread to them though is finding and stimulating the G-Spot – however there’s no guarantee and you’ll need to experiment with your partner to find what (if anything) works

2. Not everybody with a vagina can squirt, but in my experience it happens with a lot of foreplay, a lot of relaxation, and g-spot stimulation. It’s important to warm someone up – you can’t go straight to pounding the g-spot and expect a good result.

   Generally, this is most easily accomplished with fingering. It helps if you have long fingers. The “spider-man” position with the hand is good – using your middle and ring finger in a “come hither” motion inside of your partner and using your arm to augment movement as you get more intense.

   Edit: Also, assuming that the person doesn’t feel self-conscious about their stomach, pressing a little on their lower stomach with your other hand can feel good. Like, the area below the belly button. About where the natural curve of the stomach goes in, where most people’s pants sit.

   Squirting can be a very intense experience, both physically and emotionally. Some partners I have had don’t want to squirt every time we have sex, because it’s very emotional. Some partners I have had can’t come without doing it, and also squirt from clitoral orgasms rather than just g-spot orgasms. And some partners I have had can’t squirt at all.

   Honestly, the biggest key thing that I’ve found is to make sure that people don’t feel pressured to come during sex.

   Also – assuming you are a person with a penis, one thing which can help with your understanding of internally stimulating people with vaginas is experimenting with butt stuff. It’s not completely the same, but the sort of motions which cause the prostate to feel good are similar to the sort of motions which cause a g-spot to feel good.