I’m a BBW and my husband is wanting me to ride him but I am scared that I will hurt him because of my size and have an apron belly. He keeps telling me that I won’t. What should I do? And and all advice will be appreciated.

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  1. You won’t hurt him

    There are three motions that you can perform when riding your man and having sex on top.

    1) Forwards & Backwards

    If you enjoy clitoral stimulation during sex, then you will like this motion. Start by sitting right down into your man’s lap and take him fully into you. Then simply rock forwards and backwards on top of him, rubbing your clitoris of his stomach.

    2) Up & Down

    Moving upwards and downwards requires a little more effort. You are going to use your legs to ‘bounce’ on your man’s lap allowing his penis to glide in deep and then out again.

    You’ll find that this position requires a lot more effort than simply moving backwards and forwards.

    3) Around & Around

    This last movement is similar to the first, Forwards & Backwards. You are going to take your man deep into you, but instead of moving backwards and forwards on him, you are going to be making a circular motion instead.

    Now these three movements are a starting point for riding a guy while on top, but to truly enjoy yourself then you’re going to need to do a bit of experimentation to see what you like and enjoy the most.

    Now!!!

    Truly riding your man burns lots of calories. While that might sound exciting, it’s not while you’re at it. If you go too fast from the start and don’t take breaks, you might get tired too soon. That’s why you should use your energy wisely. In this regard, if you have a hard time keeping up momentum, try taking your lovemaking to the couch.

    Have your lover sit on the couch, then sit on back while keeping your feet firmly planted on the floor. You’ll find this is probably way more comfortable than squatting over your lover in bed.

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  3. If you can do squats and maintain them you should be fine.
    Its not your weight but how well you can support it.

  8. I love it when women ride me and if they are bbw I love it more to see there boobs move your husband in for a treat

  10. You’ll be fine.

    But to convince yourself, try it in steps,

    Hop up. (But without actually hopping)

    Get him in.

    Move a bit, slow and gentle.

    At this point, you should have established that you can indeed be up on top of him and move as long as you do it gently.

    Then try faster.

    And faster.

    And unhindered.

    If you ask me, the likely outcome is that you’ll notice that all of them work. But you need to convince yourself, and you can do that gradually.

  11. If you sit on his chest or stomach, then there might be an issue. However, sitting across his hips, so those special parts align, you are not going to hurt him. It will take some experimentation to find the right angles and motion for maximum pleasure.

    I love seeing my wife get on top, ride me like a rented mule, use me like a boy toy, enjoying my cock. It’s like live porn, seeing her body, her boobs, her facial expressions. Go for it, enjoy it, and give him a show.

  12. I was scared and self-conscious too. My experiments have shown that you can’t hurt him, so really don’t worry about that. If you feel self-conscious like I did, you could start off by blind folding him so you get comfortable with the position and doing it first. Then as you get more comfortable with that, remove it. He knows and loves your body. Once you see how turned on he is, it’ll give you confidence too 🙂

  13. A lot of your weight is going to be on your knees, supported by the mattress, rather than on him, and the mattress will also absorb some of the weight where you are in contact with him. So your fears of hurting him aren’t very well-founded. Plenty of big gals ride their guys, and you don’t exactly see an epidemic of guys showing up at the ER with broken pelvises. It’ll be fine.

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