Me and girlfriend have been dating for almost two years. We’ve obviously done the deed and both are satisfied with how things have gone. Long story short though, it takes a while to make her finish; in fact I think she’s finished once and we’ve done it many times. She says it’s ok and she’s happy; but I don’t want her to feel like it’s ok to have things be like that forever. So I’m here on Reddit to ask you all for any tips you may have to help me satisfy her, because she deserves to feel pleasure and I want to give her that. Thank You in advance.
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Your best bet would be to ask her what she likes, how best to touch her etc. however, you might also find these helpful:
-The G-spot is located 2-3 inches inside and upwards towards the belly-button. Slide your fingers inside, make an upwards, rubbing “come here” gesture with them, and a soft bump should tell you where the g-spot is.
-Women are generally insecure/anxious about how their breasts and vagina look. Complimenting those helps to relax them and let’s them enjoy themselves more.
-Women enjoy knowing they’re making you feel good. Moans, groans and grunts while you fuck them help with that. Every single time you slide into a woman’s pussy should be accompanied with a deep moan.
-The more you turn her on and build up her arousal beforehand (edging) the longer and stronger her orgasm will be.
-Pulling a woman’s hair from the edges is painful, pulling it nearer the scalp is more manageable pain wise.
-Dirty talk can vary based on the woman. Some women like to be praised (e.g “your pussy feels so good squeezing my cock”), some like to be degraded (e.g “take it like the little cock-hungry slut you are”) and some like a mixture (eg “you’re such a good little slut, taking my cock all the way like this)”. It’s worth asking beforehand which one she would enjoy most.
-Kissing a woman’s neck feels amazing for her, but only with wet lips. Run your tongue along your lips to wet them first before kissing her.
-Be gentle when rubbing her clit. Too much pressure feels uncomfortable and can turn her off.
-Don’t neglect her pussy lips, they’re also sensitive and rubbing, stroking and licking them can feel amazing for her
-The undersides of a woman’s tits can be very sensitive, and again, get neglected too often. Rub, kiss and lick them in addition to the nipple play.
-Her inners thighs are extremely sensitive, licking them is a great way to tease her and get her worked up before licking her out.
-When licking her out, using the flat of your tongue is better than just the tip. With the wider flat of your tongue, your tongue touches more of her pussy with each lick and spreads the sensation over a wider area
-Rubbing your shaft against her pussy can feel good too.
-Wet your fingers in your mouth first before stroking/rubbing/fingering etc. As a rule, dry fingers generally don’t feel as good as wet fingers
-If she’s about to cum, don’t stop what you’re doing while she does, and don’t change the pace, keep going exactly as you are through her orgasm.
-In missionary, placing a cushion under a woman’s ass tilts it upwards, and the angle allows your cock to hit her g-spot on every thrust.
-In doggy, reaching under her with a hand and rubbing her clit as you fuck get will drive her crazy.
First question. How does she make herself cum? That answer dictates my advice.
You left out the most important part: are you spending lots of time, attention and skill in getting her off in foreplay (oral, oral + hands, dildo, vibe)?
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