Hypothetically, You’re kissing a girl for the first time, it’s serious, you put your hands on her waist, where do you go now?

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1. Idk lol safer to go for the chest if you’re worried about her freaking out but not everyone gets pleasure from boob touching. The best way to prevent someone from freaking out no matter where you touch them is to move your hand in tiny increments, creeping up slowly to the bra band and this should give them enough time to consider where they like your hand going, when you’re just at the edge of the breast, hold it there for a while. Give them a good final moment to figure out whether they like how close your hand is to their breast. I cant think of a better way to prevent “freaking out”

2. With first kisses I tend to first hold her face in one or both hands or have a hand on her back. If you haven’t, try holding her face and if she’s into you she’ll eat that up. I play it by ear but I tend to escalate by putting a hand up her back. If she’s receptive to it then I’ll explore other places like her stomach or chest. Obviously stop if she pushes back.

   Don’t overthink it

3. I personally let her move my hand to where she is ready for me to go

4. Woah slow down. Don’t stick your hands under her shirt that quickly. Move your hands slowly down towards her ass and see how she is feeling.

5. Waist down to side of her butt. Not under cheek SIDE. Maybe grab hips and gently pull her closer.

   Definitely don’t go right to titties.

6. One down to the hip and one up to between the shoulder blades. Then judge which area she presses more into my body.

7. Go in this order, as given to me by an older guy when I was a teen. If you get pushed back, try again two or three steps back. Go in order again. If you get pushed back a second time, stop and call it a night.

   ORDER: Waist, Sides, one hand back, one hand lower back/upper butt, back of the neck kiss, one hand butt, two hands quick butt, waist to reset, kiss front neck/above breasts, two hands not quick butt, under the shirt to the stomach moving higher to just under breasts, breasts (quickly), back to front neck, then breasts not quickly

8. Early on I’d move his hands around for him so he’d get the idea.

9. When in doubt, do what Jay from the Inbetweeners would do!

10. First kiss and already going for her breasts ? Calm down ! There’s no need to escalate right away. Enjoy the moment.

11. Follow her lead.

    Not enough is said for the hands that just explore the bare back.

12. Mmm I remember my first kiss (really makeout sessions) with my bf was quite hot and heavy. I remember vividly him reaching out and stroking my nipple over my shirt and I told him he was bad (in the best possible way) mmmm. Guess you just have to judge the moment and energy between you….I wouldn’t change a thing! 😉

13. Stoke her cheek. Caress the back of her neck. Run you fingers through her hair. Then maybe something more.

14. Yeah use your hands

15. Professor zoom shows up and does his thang

16. If I’m kissing a girl for the first time I’m not going for anything but the kiss. No need to rush it then she will think that’s all I want. No need to be a horndog. Have a little will power.

17. Keep one arm around waste, hold her cheek with the other hand and continue kissing.

18. I’d just embrace her, stop trying to make everything about sex.

19. If it’s a first kiss I keep my hands on her waists for a good while. If it starts to get more intimate my hands go straight down her pants to grab her ass cheeks; I skip her tits completely. But I’m a pig so…

20. Into her purse and grab a snack.

21. I would go for the clothed bum. It depends how hot and heavy you guys are going but if it’s a romantic first kiss that isn’t ending in sex then that’s where I would leave it. Grabbing her boobs is a little crass, fine if it’s just sex but not that smooth if it’s romantic. Fingers on her bare waist is hot, I personally love when guys do that and it’s probably fine for most girls if you leave it at that, but I will also assume they’re trying to fuck. You’ve penetrated the defensive layer of my clothes yknow?

22. A good start is to ask her permission to touch her

23. Why I am getting turned on from this?

24. Keep one hand on her waist, move the other hand down to her butt and pull her in closer while giving it a little squeeze. Move waist hand to the small of her back. Save the boob for later.

    Source: am woman who has kissed men

25. I’d turn her arround, kiss her neck, bent her over and …..

26. It’s a kiss, it is the first kiss… does it have to end up with boobs or bare waist touching?

    Do you really need to act out every possible scenario with the first kiss? Why not, just kiss for a while.

27. A hand in the small of her back and really gently press her body closer to me.

    Like super subtle, she shouldn’t feel any force and you should stop if you feel any resistance.

28. Not really wanting to be felt up on the first kiss….

29. Hands behind your back lean forward on your tippy toes and leave enough space for jesus