I (22 male) am a very extroverted person compared to my gf (21 female) and i usually end up making a lot of random friends with people on the street etc… well recently i met this dude (20) who is an artist on the internet and i was amazed by his work and wanted to talk to him more and more and quickly became friends with a lot of topics in common.
AND THEN well im pretty opened with almost anything and when he made some sexual jokes i followed the jokes and we ended up basically bragging about experiences and the topic of bondage came on and we joe about it but i quickly tried to change the topic but he got hung up on it and basically almost everyday he sends me pictures of people on leather suits and fanart of characters tied up etc etc . i dont want to be rude but every time i try to dismiss him and simply just say (hey i dont really like reciving this pics from you, he stops for a day or two and then starts again. ut to be faair i have tried to say it not too direct and make very OBVIOUS hints but he doesnt seem to get it or care.
now the line has been crossed and now he makes edits of me in bondage (which honestly look very real) and they make me very uncomfortable
i just cant with him anymore and he doesnt seem to understand that it makes me uncomfortable so i decided to just ghost him
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He’s not a friend, really. True friends don’t do that. At best he’s an acquaintance, at worst he is a pest. You are wise to ghost him, although I might be concerned he might start posting some of his shit involving you to the public arena.
Yeah he probably wants to do BDSM with other men and may not fully aware of his bisexuality or homosexuality. At your age I dealt with young adult men who arranged a woman to have a bj for both of us. I found it very weird he later admitted to being bi at the time but underwent conversion therapy.. bi and gay men love getting straight guys