It obviously isn’t like porn where the man drops his pants and the woman is hungry to suck him off. I wouldn’t mind that at all but I know that’s not how it works and have a little more respect for how the woman feels.
I would assume that most woman don’t want to just suck you off and I definitely want to do it with someone I care about anyways. Still it’s very important for me that oral sex is apart of my sex life. I just want some advice on how to go about it and what women think about BJ’s. It would be nice if she was a freak but I’m keeping my expectations low and that it’s something I need to build trust with first.
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Some women don’t like doing oral but I think most enjoy it if not too often and not dragged out for ages to the point where they’re exhausted. Do your part to make it easier for her to want to by keeping good hygiene etc. And obviously do your part in terms of what she needs from the sexual side of the relationship… Then it’s just a matter of communication and understanding her position on this and her understanding your needs. Hopefully you can both get on the same page and mutually enjoy the approach you both choose.
Oral sex isn’t freaky. It’s as vanilla as vanilla gets.
As to how to ask for it? “Can we go down on one another? I think it’d be fun.”
Tell her that it’s important to her but don’t pressure her. If she doesn’t want to then you gotta respect that and there’s nothing to discuss
If you are in a sexual relationship and you are mature people it is very simple. “Hey babe, can I get a blowjob?”
Do you give her oral?
Actually sometimes its exactly like that if you have a woman who loves to suck dick. I just make it clear at the beginning of the relationship that frequent oral is mandatory. If they dont agree we aren’t compatable! Oral sex isnt freaky either. Its on the vanilla spectrum. You have put to much on a pedestal.