First Step After First Date

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**Intro**:

I (23m) went on date with (27f) after meeting her in a group setting where she began flirting with me. For this 1 on 1 date, I got her flowers, took her to somewhat of a fancy restaurant (paid for it), got her fav alcohol and then took her back to my apartment where we got handsy but no sex. At end I drove her back at 4am.

After date I told her it was nice to get to know her better and i look forward to future adventures. She said yes and we kinda planned for another date this Friday.

**Issue**:

after showing so much initiative, I was hoping she would message me first prior to the next date. I told her after date I like cuddling with her and she didnt really say it back which made me unsure about her feelings. I also posted a DJ video and she was one of few people who didnt react to it on instagram.

During the first date, she got a bit mad at me for no reason; for example, she said its unfair (not jokingly) i used mouthwash prior to us cuddling and got mad when i asked if she wasnt sick recently when she offered me her electric vape (i get this might not have been the best move on my behalf).

also, i know she had her heart broken by past guys so i feel like she has trouble trusting me which i find odd. however, she did cuddle with me and touch me and everything

her friend (mutual friend) asked her how the date was and she said it was good and that she will tell the details in person

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**Question:**

1. is it reasonable to expect her to show some initiative in messaging / confirming our date on friday?
2. if she doesnt message, should i just ignore the date or say something to her?

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thanks everyone.

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