I created profiles on Hinge, Bumble and OkC. With details and photos but nothing works out. I don’t even get any likes and I have sent long detailed messages sometimes with dad-joke ice-breakers but all in dark. No response. Nothing seems to work out 🙁
I do not know how to put forward myself in the market. I am not very outdoorsy. Much on nerdy side with decent job, but with a much less desired demographic for males ( Indian in early 30s).
Please, give me advice what should I try? What other apps/ options should I use. I am depressed for not having any intimate partner in life.
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You would better become a cool guy ASAP
Leave OKCupid. It requires extensive work because anyone can send messages so you have to send really thorough messages to break through. Women friends have shown me their OKC inbox and they get hundreds of messages a day without even matching. So the short messages get ignored and the long ones go unread.
I put in tons of work on OKC for years and had plenty of pleasant connections, but Tinder is far superior. There are simply more people because its more popular and its easier to use, bios and messages are shorter, and they now have category tags for profiles and interests so it has a lot of the benefits of OKC.
Even if you don’t like Tinder, redirect all that OKC effort and find different apps that require matching before messaging.