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You have to realize that physical appearance isn’t the only factor in what makes a person sexy. When you build a personal connection with someone, it becomes so much less important than you think.
Haven’t you ever developed feeling for someone only *after* getting to know them? And they become much more attractive?
Its why guys like ed sheeran have girls hanging off them, and obsessed with them. Google a picture of ed sheeran. The guy is an absolute goon. But hes sexy, and girls love him.
You probably arent going to end up with a girl from Maxim magazine. You’ll end up with someone you love, and thats better.
How about dealing with women as though they are simply people who are worth talking to and getting to know, regardless of whether they might be willing to date you, until you get to know them well enough to know if they might like you? Because for certain sure, the hot ones who are also smart have a radar for guys who think women are only interesting for possible dating relationships.
I’ve tried helping guys with this all my life practically. I give up.
Be the best you, use proper posture, smile, hold a conversation, be a gentleman. This alone will enable you to literally have the pick of available women.
The question is will you listen and make the effort to learn these things?
Most men, nope. Sincerely good luck 👍🏼
If you don’t know someone how can you know if they are out of of your league? Start with tha. Everyone has things about themselves they are proud of and not so proud of. Even if the exterior looks “flawless” maybe there are some inner things they need to work on.
I have denied relationships because I’ve thought they were too good looking to have a proper relationship