i have sexual needs just like everyone else, but they are purely romantic, meaning i only wanna have sex with people i like or care about “so long as it is someone that would benefit form sex ofc, i would feel no lust towards someone who is in pain and who would only feel worse form me having sex with them”
i could never masterbate to someone not feeling good or to someone i don’t care about, evan during my non con Fantasias the one am having sex with have to feel good and feel happy about me having sex with them.
i also can’t feel lust for someone i dislike, if am horny for someone and they turn out to be an asshole then my horniness for them is just gone, am i the only one like this?
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Sounds like you might be demisexual. A perfectly normal orientation, and something that might be worth looking into for you.
I can say only one thing that makes you a perfect partner
I feel pretty much the same. I can’t even imagine having sex with somebody without feelings and crush to. M45.
Yeah? You’re a normal healthy person.
Despite what Reddit or this newest generation may try and tell you, this is completely normal and healthy and the way things are supposed to work. It’s really not normal or healthy to feel lust towards “people in pain” or “who would feel worse from me having sex with them” or people “you don’t care about”. Although people will try to spin that as great in “sex positive” culture, it’s really not and it’s a bit warped.