I am a 20 year old male and I recently lost my V-card(finally). However the first time we had sex I couldn’t nut. We went for about 15 minutes and I think she orgasmed but I just couldn’t get myself there. I honestly 100% think it was performance anxiety but the past 2 weeks we have been having a lot of sex and I can’t nut!
Last night was the craziest sex I’ve ever had and it felt so good but I just couldn’t nut. I thought I had a condition where I can’t nut but after I woke up today my underwear was stained with nut. So it’s not that it’s impossible for me to nut, I guess I just can’t do it during sex?? Please if anyone has ever had this problem and fixed it please let me know how.
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Pressure plays a big role during sex, especially if you both think sex ends after you finish. I used to struggle with this, the way I got over it was solely focusing on her, her needs, her enjoying it. Then once she finishes all the pressure regarding finishing for me was lifted off my shoulders. You kind of hit 2 birds with 1 stone doing this as 1. She orgasms and enjoys herself and 2. It might make it easier for you. I don’t know, seems strange I know but give it a try, worked for me 👍
P.S don’t hesitate to talk to your partner about it, it’s a personal and private thing so if you trust them, talk and explain how it makes you feel and that it’s not her fault, it’s just something that you’re dealing with at the moment.
Take the pressure out of it, relax and enjoy it 👍
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Can you retract your foreskin? If it’s too tight it won’t and you may not be getting enough sensation during actual sex. If it won’t retract seek help from a doctor/surgeon but don’t get talked into a full circumcision when a fractional one will do 🙂