Throughout the summer, I have had frequent conversations with this individual. Our communication has been relatively relaxed because I am familiar with his habits. A friend of mine mentioned that he doesn’t respond well on SMS platforms, which I can confirm because both my friend and I have experienced situations where we message him and he leaves our messages on read.
In the first week of August, I sent him a message and he didn’t read it for six days. During those six days, I felt irritated and started overthinking, questioning why he was behaving this way and what it meant. When I finally received a reply, I asked if he was okay with me talking to him frequently. He explained that he is often busy with work and feels tired, which is why it can take him months to reply to messages, even though he is active on social media.
Based on this, I assumed he might be someone who struggles with reading messages promptly. However, last Wednesday, I sent him another message and it still shows as delivered. I’m unsure how to feel about this situation. Should I give him space and leave him alone, or should I reduce the frequency of my messages? I must admit that after the first incident, my feelings towards him have changed. It has reached a point where I have muted my notifications, so…
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