As the title says I am considering entering the lifestyle in the position of a bull.
However i have spoken to couples who use this lifestyle for one time hookups and couples whose relationships are breaking and use this as last chance to save marriage. I hate to become the reason for deterioration of someones marriage.
However, the reason I wanna be bull is that I can help the couple deepen their bond and intimacy. It will be something that only 3 of us share and no one else has any idea about it.
I wanna see the excitement in wife’s eyes as I’m entering her in front of her husband.
To sum up I want bring joy into couples lives and bring them closer.
Do i have wrong mindset?
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Views are ok. So you do have experience with wives, and they are happy and want more. If not, this is just wishful thinking.
I would point you towards some literature on ethical non-monogamy and polyamory such as [this article](https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-ethical-non-monogamy-5176515). Your fears are reasonable, and there are things you can do to help. I would read about it more and try to figure out a good way or approaching that responsibility. If I was in your position I might make like a checklist of red flags for when I’m going into a scene. So if a couple invites you in and you start getting bad vibes that this is not what is best for them, you can opt out.
Be safe, be kind, have fun!