So I didn’t think much of it for some time but now I’m getting frustrated. About a year ago I found hentai and kinda became addicted to it. I have always felt pleasure when I came watching it and when listening to audio porn from r/Gonewildaudio. But now that I’ve started to date/fuck around I’ve noticed that I can’t seem to feel pleasure in cumming to the point that I have to fake my orgasms. I still feel pleasure having sex but I just don’t feel that explosive pleasure at the end unlike when I cum by myself. And at this point it’s becoming a frustrating situation. Funny enough fucking someone only has the outcome of making me more hornier. Has anyone else gone through something like this? I’m 24 btw.
Edit: I’m a man btw 😂 forgot to include that bit of info.
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Yes you not alone 😮💨
Yep, I’ve gone through this.
Disclaimer: if you want a real answer you should talk to a sex therapist, of which I am not one. But it’s possible that you’ve built a strong association between your sexual response and the specific stimuli of your masturbation routine. That association could be strong enough that, when you find yourself in a sexual situation with a partner, your brain doesn’t recognize it as a situation which merits the same kind of arousal and orgasm.
It might be worth considering a break from masturbation (and maybe sex) to re-sensitize yourself to situations which you want to turn you on more but which don’t match your masturbation routine. I took three weeks earlier this year and that worked for me, but everyone’s different. It may or may not work for you. Good luck!